Peer couples, in the last century, almost the basic pattern of Chinese couples. We are all one unit, and yet now, in fact, very common. In particular, in the technical work for some couples,UGGs, the husband and wife the chance to peer higher. a couple of experienced people may think that if we are colleagues, I may know him better than in the past (her). Many people are less because of a common language with each other, and gradually else gets. but peers who know each other's work, and even thinking. but too familiar with each other, and gradually lost between husband and wife mystery and interest. So, what peers, are close or too close?
advantages
as husband and wife is a peer- a lucky thing, you can easily become close friends, sharing the work of the confusion, the common analysis of the bottleneck, the other is your friend at work. Maybe you hand in the campus, perhaps a colleague or peer. you Discussion started in professional communication, into first marriage, your so sweet. You always talk about the topic of endless, and so easy to understand each other's feelings and ideas, and share those concerns for the other problem-solving, you are best friends and friends. any trouble caused by the work and joy, you want him (her) to exchange, you only need to say a few words, he (she) will know your problem, the wisdom, after all, two people larger than a person, So you continue to work together to get the effect you more quickly than colleagues in progress. peer couples, thanks to the work with you and to love people.
disadvantage
easier to understand that you are in the same each other, but also more likely to lose a close interest in each other. hand on campus, you know his (her) past, present work, the details of life. He (she) you are well aware of all that he (she) is your relatives, family members, but has become increasingly like love. especially when you work, showing more than his ability and a better future, his sense of increased pressure. you do not worship the campus His simple, and now he was in your eyes become plain. days before the trip, you have forgotten the other side still need your encouragement and care. make you seem very close to your heart may be getting away. Sometimes you will hate as a peer, perhaps in the eyes of other people gain a sense of pride in each other's eyes, nothing.
how to change:
stop complaining about each other, and stop complaining about your work, He (she) is not your punching bag for granted. efforts to find each other's advantages, can fall in love with each other, because each of you who appreciate and like, do not let the familiar kill your feelings, you just forget it, do not forget equal to not love. philosophers have said,UGG shoes, the passion of love can only continue for three years, later turn into a kind called love,Bailey UGG boots, just forget it. put this memory to come back,UGG boots, especially fellow women may have more than your partner's expertise, work accomplishments can not speak for themselves. I believe God is fair to everyone, and in some ways you partner must be stronger than you, but you work all the misconception that it is life. peer couples represent the nature of the job you work just the same, should appreciate this kind of its shortcomings. you know each other's work, they should know better how to encourage each other, enlighten each other, in addition to your partner in life, it is the work of teachers. So be thankful for view such a fate, I believe you can grasp their lives. Source: Information Times
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